Just a little something from me, to you. I'm just a big girl livin' in a "small world, and more than just a pretty face. In my blog you will laugh, cry and maybe pee a little..its all about rants, raves and general comments about life,love,beauty and everything in between. xoxox
Friday, February 22, 2013
Love is patient..Love is kind..
So I’ve sitting around all day AKA working, wondering what
to write about…and then it hit me like a ten pound cat-fish! Love…sweet
magical, frustrating Love. As the famous Cher quoted “Love don’t need a
reason..she can pick you up, or leave you bleeding”. Some of us search our
whole life searching for that ONE great love. Some of us find love in other
things…maybe your true love is your job, your new baby…your dog. Whatever it
is, it’s worth EVERY frustrating, broken heart moment.
Why do we fall in love SO easy, even when we know it’s not
right?Speaking from personal
experience, my aspiration in life is to find and keep great love; I want to be
THAT couple that people know they are in presence of GREAT love when around us.
YES, I did spend a large chunk (7 years..) of my life with someone I always
knew wasn’t exactly right for me. Some would ask, well why would you stay and
waste your time? Well, I wouldn’t consider that a waste of time. I suppose you
kind of get used to the idea of someone being in your life, and if it works and
your happy-ish..why change? As someone who doesn’t like change and enjoys
routine, that was right up my alley. We got along, he was my best friend and we
had a comfortable life and I think we both just used to it. And sometimes it’s
just easier to stay then to leave. Which is kind of sad when you REALLY think
about it. Life is SO short, why the HELL do we stay and invest in something that
doesn’t make us grow…and we’re just too damn lazy to just make a move….or are
we afraid of being, dare I say, ALONE?
Sometimes, it takes us meeting that ‘great love” to realize,
what exactly, we were missing in our life. That love that makes you question
EVERY idea you ever had about life and love in general. And sometimes you have
to STOP in your tracks and wonder if this person was created out of your dreams
or perhaps someone REALLY is listening to your wishes? People come into your
life for many reasons; some stay for a while, and some leave shortly after they’ve
entered. I often used to hear about
people finding their “soul mates”, saying “you just know”..”you can feel it”.
And I always used to wonder..HOW? HOW can you feel it?? What the HELL does “it”
feel like??? But believe ME, when you know you’ve found the person you’re meant
to walk this life with, there’s NO more questions..you just know.I remember asking my mom-Faye when she knew
my dad was “the one” and she said (without skipping a beat) “after our first
date”….THAT is great love at its finest, and I finally understand.
In conclusion my beautiful reader, I hope that whatever Love
you have, it’s great..and NOTHING less than spectacular. That is ALL you
deserve, as life is too short to put up with anything less than butterflies…